Siem Reap

Cambodia’s Red Dirt and Colorful Blessings

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Cambodia’s red dirt

Our days in Siem Reap passed quickly. Remork rides with Sothea were a favorite part of every day–quiet, almost chilly morning rides to the temples and refreshing breezes in the chaotic afternoon traffic when we returned to our hotel.

Cambodia has this red dust. It colors the sky with a diffused, hazy pink at dawn and at dusk, and coats everything with a layer of grit. Hundreds of booths selling water, postcards, and snacks line the roads around the temples. One afternoon, we passed a woman sitting in the shade on the roadside, doing needlepoint—in all the heat, humidity, traffic, and dust—-calmly and fastidiously working on that fine material. I wonder if her hands have that sweaty grit, or if the material feels as dirty as my clothes do after just one day.

Ta Prohm and colorful wrists

The Ta Prohm temples are covered in strangler fig and silk cotton trees. French restorers decided to leave it as it was found so tourists could see it as the “finders” first saw it and demonstrate the power of neglect for ruins near a jungle. Work has been done to stabilize the ruins, to build walkways for tourists, and to maintain a look of “apparent neglect”. There are clink-clink-clink sounds of hammering as workers remake designs on concrete and stone amid all those tree roots slowly inching into the old buildings.

Ta Prohm's strangler fig trees, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Ta Prohm’s strangler fig trees, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Workmen rebuild and remake parts of Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Workmen rebuild and remake parts of Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Trees prying into the ruins of Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Trees prying into the ruins of Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.

 

We walked through the area in the morning, when it wasn’t yet jam packed with people. In one of the alcoves, a woman sat with baskets of string bracelets, incense, and a donation bowl. I stopped to look and we smiled at each other. I placed money in her bowl and she picked up a yellow woven bracelet and whispered a chant as she tied it to my right wrist, and without letting go of my hand, added a second blessing bracelet of bright red and pink braided over a purple thread. I motioned for permission to take her photo and she nodded yes, and gave my camera a shy smile. Later, as we stopped in a line of people in another alcove, a second blessing lady smiled at my colorful wrists. I smiled back and squatted down to put a donation in her empty bowl. She quietly sang a chant while adding a blue bracelet and then a braided yellow and red one. These women sit there among all the tourists, waiting and watching–and ignored by many who walk by. I wanted to spend a few minutes with these ladies, and get their sweet and simple blessings. It certainly can’t hurt to give a few dollars, spend a moment together in a place so special, and come away with good spirits and colorful wrists.

Blessing giver in Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Blessing giver in Ta Prohm, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.

 

Overwhelming

We returned to the area where all the remork drivers waited. To pass time in the heat, some drivers napped in hammocks, others sprawled out in their carriages—feet or hands dangling over the sides. Angkor Wat has so many temples and things to see: Ta Keo on a hill, Chau Say, the 200+ faces of Bayon, monkeys, Neak Pean’s ponds, Victory Gate’s row boat men sculptures, elephants in traffic, and the Terrace of the Elephants. We lost ourselves—even with a map. It was like walking through a museum of the finest treasures—where after a few hours, the immenseness floods the senses, and details start to get lost in a mind jumble.

Victory Gate, Angkor Wat, Siem Reap Cambodia
Victory Gate, Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Some of the 200+ faces of Bayon, Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia
Some of the 200+ faces of Bayon, Angkor Wat, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
The South Gate's soldiers on the Bridge, Angkor Thom / Angkor Wat, Cambodia
The South Gate’s soldiers on the Bridge, Angkor Thom / Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Bas reliefs at Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Bas reliefs at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Ponds at Neak Pean, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Ponds at Neak Pean, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
The long bridge walkway at Neak Pean, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
The long bridge walkway at Neak Pean, Angkor Wat, Cambodia. Panorama taken with an iPhone.

 

I also found the sheer number of tourists—particularly, the rude tourists—overwhelming. I do realize that a tourist complaining about other tourists is the height of hypocrisy. So, yes, I am part of the problem that many locals complain about when they are overrun with visitors. And I will fully admit that I was getting punchy with the heat and being tired. That said, I have a few suggestions for all of us tourists:

  • Be careful when walking with, or waving, a selfie stick in a crowd. Those sticks can bruise someone or crack a camera lens.
  • Everyone wants to see the site—not other tourists climbing into the site. Wait your turn, and stay on the designated paths.
  • Share the space. Take a few shots and move along. Don’t monopolize a spot for 15 minutes perfecting a pose. We saw so many people climb into temple windows, and pose there for so long that we started to make up names for their poses: “look thoughtful while resting chin on interlaced fingers” or “kick feet up and make sunshine with hands”.
  • Learn to say “excuse/pardon me” and “I’m sorry”—in many languages (or any language) for those instances when jostling through a crowd. At the very least, practice acknowledging others’ presence by saying something nice in your own language, smiling, or miming your intentions or apologies when bumping against others or stepping into their photos by accident.
  • Don’t patronize the animals. Monkeys should not be teased with food or for photo opportunities—they can bite, scratch, or snatch food or things from you or your child. It’s probably not fun for the monkeys, and it won’t be funny when it happens to you. If you must ride an elephant, look for a conscientious group that respectfully cares for the elephants, that takes care of the environment, and that is owned by locals (not foreign investors).
Traffic includes elephants at Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Traffic includes elephants at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Elephant Bas Relief at Terrace of the Elephants, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Elephant bas relief at Terrace of the Elephants, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Elephants temples of Angkor Wat, Cambodia
Elephant columns at a temple ruin in Angkor Wat, Cambodia.

 

A most special blessing

Our days in Siem Reap and Angkor Wat consisted of remork rides to the temples in the fresh mornings, lots of walking and seeing sites, and remork rides back to the hotel for a late lunch, poolside. After eating meals like veggie spring rolls or egg and cheese spaghetti, and mojitos, we’d retire to the room to escape the afternoon heat—the wind chimes outside our door gently tolling in the hot breeze.

View from an early morning remork ride, Siem Reap, Cambodia
View from an early morning remork ride, Siem Reap, Cambodia.

 

Early one morning we visited Preah Khan, another strangler tree location that is smaller and less crowded. We roamed the grounds with a handful of others. It was quiet, and mysterious in the still, hazy-mist of morning. We came across a curious pink plastic handbag sitting off the path by a cave-like structure. A few minutes later, we entered a portico clearing, and there sitting in a nook was a tiny, curled up, bald old lady monk in white. Her smiling eyes were cloudy and she had that universal-looking apple face of the very old—toothless and round. She was giving blessings and I was smitten.

Her smile was kind and peaceful as she took my hand and started her chant. She had strong nimble fingers—and bestowed her blessings with three simple strings of white, orange and yellow—knotted only once in the middle. A palm rub, then a gesture like pulling my soul from my heart, a touch to my forehead and then a playful “poof” of breath into my face and a radiant smile. She had this helpless look, but smiling, confident, and at peace—and she looked like a combination of grandmas from all over the world. I heard a guide say he’d been coming there for 10 years and she’d always been there. Precious. To this day, seven months later, those simple strings are still on my left wrist, along with the red yard tied by the boy monk. My treasures from Cambodia.

A special blessing from in Preah Khan, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
A special blessing in Preah Khan, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
The monk's things at Preah Khan, Angkor Wat, Cambodia
We saw the monk’s things at Preah Khan before we saw her, Angkor Wat, Cambodia.

 

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Cambodia’s Angkor Wat

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Angkor Wat: “Erected by some ancient Michelangelo”

On our first full day in Cambodia, we purchased 3-day passes for $67 for Angkor Wat, a place so revered by Cambodians that it is on their flag. It is the largest religious monument in the world—covering almost 500 acres.

Built in the 1100s AD as a Hindu temple and a capital city for King Suryavarman II’s Khmer Empire, it was converted to a Buddhist temple later that century. Later, it would nearly be abandoned. In the mid-1800s, a French explorer named Henri Mouhot wrote about Angkor Wat, and reestablished interest in the complex:

“One of these temples—a rival to that of Solomon, and erected by some ancient Michelangelo—might take an honorable place beside our most beautiful buildings. It is grander than anything left to us by Greece or Rome…”

A moat had stopped the jungle from overtaking the temple, but the complex needed much help to clear vegetation and restore some buildings. Today Angkor Wat, with its surrounding temples, is a UNESCO world heritage site.

We took a remork (Cambodian tuk tuk) to the temple, enjoying the cool morning air breezing on us in the carriage. Through the residential side streets, and main road motorbike chaos, into the red dirt land of Cambodia on the road to Angkor Wat, those rides were a favorite part of our day—talking to Sothea (the driver), and seeing life along the streets of Siem Reap.

Just outside the main entrance to Angkor Wat, we decided last minute to hire a guide to walk with us through the complex. Our expectation was that he’d take us to the most meaningful spots (he did), allow me time to photograph (he did not), and tell us about the complex with both facts and local stories. We got the facts—spewed at us without context or passion as we ran to keep up with him. Any questions set him to rewind-repeat-data mode. One hour of this fast-moving, fact frenzy for $15. Whew. I was glad to hear him say, “Time is up. You want ‘nother hour?” “No sir, thank you.” And that was the first and last day we used a guide. From then on, we decided to wander, see what we saw, and look it up in our book—a pace better suited to us.

Donation box at a temple at Angkor Wat
Donation box at a temple at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Lady with blue umbrella Walking around the almost 500 acre temple complex at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Walking around the almost 500-acre temple complex at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Cool, dark tunnels in the Angkor Wat temples, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Cool, dark tunnels in the Angkor Wat temples, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
A building from 1100 AD at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
A building from 1100 AD at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
Bas relief of two women at Angkor Wat temple complex, Cambodia
Bas relief of two women at Angkor Wat temple complex, Cambodia.

 

Red Yarn Blessings

It was after our guide left us that we heard a soft young voice chanting, and saw the teenage boy making the song. He was a monk. Shaved head, wrapped in an orange robe, seated in front of a woman and her young daughter. We watched and waited, and when they stepped down, we stepped up. He indicated our shoes. We took them off. He pointed to our places to sit. We sat, Bryan to my right. And then he began chanting while looking down at his accoutrements and monk tools. Next, a raised a scooper out of a bucket of water and shook it in our direction. I covered my camera in my lap and welcomed the cool drops of water in this 90+ degree humid day. He looked at me and indicated my left wrist. I offered my arm and he began tying a red-braided piece of wool yarn around my wrist while chanting—knotting it once, twice, how many times? He then took scissors and carefully cut off the excess. Then he did the same to Bryan’s right wrist. Bryan put money in the young monk’s basket, and we reached to get our shoes. I turned back to the young monk and asked him, “How old are you?” He hesitated for so long that I thought he did not understand my language, and / or was not going to answer. But as I picked up my shoes, he ever-so-quietly said, “Fifteen,” waited a heartbeat or two, and then smiled at me. My heart melted a little as I smiled back and said my best “saum arkoun nay” (Thank you in Khmer…I hope) and I stood to go.

The red string is to remind the wearer to be compassionate, to mind the tongue so as not to harm with words, and to be fearless, courageous, and brave. Some say it protects too—absorbing negative energy until it can hold no more, and falls off. As I write this, it is nearly seven months later, and the red yarn blessing is still secure on my wrist, and the young monk’s shy smile is tucked tight in my memories. I like this red yarn and its reminders.

A young monk bestows blessings at Angkor Wat, Cambodia.
A young monk trims a red yarn blessing after bestowing it in Angkor Wat, Cambodia.

 

Spirit Houses

As we walked around Siem Reap, we noticed colorful little houses on pedestals, often placed near door ways. The birdhouse-sized structures sometimes had offerings on their little patios—burning incense, a little bowl of rice, fruit slices, a piece of bread or cake, a cup of coffee, a shot glass of liquor or soft drink. These are spirit houses. Some are ornate, some simple and plain, and each one intriguing. I learned that they are common in Southeast Asia, and are considered a place to shelter and appease restless spirits, and to invite the good spirits of those recently departed. Friendly spirits are said to congregate in the spirit houses to enjoy food and drink, and it is their presence that keeps bad spirits away.

A small spirit house, beside an ancient tree. Siem Reap, Cambodia.
A small spirit house, beside an ancient tree. Siem Reap, Cambodia.
A simple spirit house, Cambodia.
A simple spirit house, Cambodia.
Ornate spirit house with coffee offering. Cambodia.
Ornate spirit house with coffee offering. Cambodia.
Lots of incense and drinks at this spirit house, Cambodia.
Incense and drinks at this spirit house, Cambodia.

 

The Night Market

After a daytime of touring, we’d return to the hotel for a little rest and to clean up. At sundown, we walked into the old town for dinner. In the cool of the evening, more people were out, laughing and talking, eating and visiting. We went to the touristy Pub Street to find meals, and ventured into the circus of the Night Market.

The Night Markets were always interesting. There were narrow lanes containing hundreds of small stalls selling brand-name knock-off clothing and accessories. One could also find souvenirs and t-shirt vendors, dimly-lit and calm massage shops–where several tourists always sat in recliners getting foot massages, and bright carnival-like stalls where tourists climbed up to sit and dangle their feet in a fish tank—the fish eating dead skin from their feet. In the streets, amputees begged with a poetic cadence, and the music of bands of land mine victims drifted into the night like smoke. Little girls demonstrated high spinning toys and glow necklaces, and served as translator when tourists bought the novelties from their nearby mom. Women sold fried tarantulas, scorpions, and snakes for snacks from large display tables hanging from their necks. There was so much going on there–and always the smells of moped exhaust, woodsmoke, and lemongrass.

Such strange and different things to see, but also so many things the same as home. And the hoards of tourists—all together, in places where we can buy bottled water, eat from a menu printed in English, find a cheap, fake version of an expensive brand, and be all together to marvel and be shocked by seeing fried scorpions served on a stick.This was everything I’ve come to love–and hate–about travel. As fascinating as it was, I longed to be away from this—away from the mobs of other tourists and the universal salad of globalization. Of course, being here in Cambodia makes me part of the problem.

I’m curious how other people feel about the increase in tourism and what it does to the places we all go. There are the crowds, the traffic, the overbooked hotels. And on the other hand, there’s an economic bump to the area. But who gets the bulk of the profits? My guess is the international company coming in, not the people who live there (who may only earn a small wage working for the tourism industry). Does anyone else worry about this, and plan trips differently as a result?

Along the street near the Night Market, Siem Reap, Cambodia
Along the street near the Night Market, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Near Pub Street, Siem Reap twilight, Cambodia.
Near Pub Street, Siem Reap twilight, Cambodia.
The Night Market, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
The Night Market, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
At night, the smiling faces inside the shop of the Geological Institute in Siem Reap, Cambodia.
At night, the smiling faces inside the shop of the Geological Institute in Siem Reap, Cambodia.

 
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First Impressions of Cambodia

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We chose Cambodia because of a Steve McCurry photo-—you know the photo…those trees hugging and prying into stone temples, and a doorway with monks in saffron robes peering out. This was the third stop on our around-the-world trip, and we were anxious to spend more time in Asia. And we found so much more than those jungle trees in beautiful Cambodia.

A kid smiles at me from the back of a motorbike in Siem Reap, Cambodia
A kid smiles at me from the back of a motorbike in Siem Reap, Cambodia.

 

To Cambodia via Hong Kong

We flew from Brisbane Australia overnight, connecting in Hong Kong. There’s something about a night flight, and a flight to HONG KONG–a place name we’ve heard all our lives and now it was printed on our boarding passes! It was 4,300 miles and 8+ hours to Hong Kong, passing over places like Papua New Guinea, Indonesia, the Philippines, and the South China Sea. I slept little, instead eyeing the flight map, trying to see the land below, and reading.

In Hong Kong, we had 70 whole minutes to change terminals and planes. We bought water, got some Hong Kong coins back in change, and I stood staring at a display of books… it took a minute in my groggy state to realize that these were for readers of right-to-left text—and were not stacked on the table backwards afterall.

Arrival in Siem Reap

We arrived in Siem Reap, Cambodia about three hours later, and exited the airport into a hot, hazy land, full of buzzing mopeds and smiling people. There was a closeness in the air, maybe the enveloping humidity and the smoke of wood fires, or maybe the dreaminess from our lack of sleep.

Traffic at dusk Motorcycles, mopeds, and remorks (tuktuks) rule the streets of Siem Reap, Cambodia
Traffic at dusk–Motorcycles, mopeds, and remorks (tuktuks) rule the streets of Siem Reap, Cambodia.

 

Mr. TinTin, a driver from the hotel, met us with a sign, escorted us to a waiting old Mercedes, and politely chattered in English with the full-blown AC on as he drove us to the hotel. We tumbled back out into the heat and smoke and sounds of buzzing motorbikes at the Privilege Boutique Hotel, and were greeted with sunny, smiling people offering cold white lemongrass-scented washcloths, and a dainty glass of an orange tasty juice I couldn’t identify. Nothing has ever felt more refreshing.

It was still morning and our room was not yet ready. So we sat and talked to our friendly hosts:  Jasmine, Phally and Ken. I felt so welcomed here, it was as if we were long-lost family. They gave us advice on seeing Angkor Wat, filled us in on their elected monarch, and taught us a few important words and phrases in Khmer like Chul Mouy (which means cheers and to my ears sounded like “chew muy”). According to Jasmine, “You say this so the ears can enjoy it too”.

Lotus blooms floating in a vase in Siem Reap, Cambodia
Lotus blooms floating in a vase in Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Lotus pads floating in a hotel vase, Siem Reap, Cambodia
Lotus pads floating in a hotel vase, Siem Reap, Cambodia.

 

These friendly Cambodians have a history that is equally grand and empirical, elegant and exotic, and cruel and haunting. There is Angkor Wat, a vast religious monument that is evidence of a time when Cambodia was the center of an empire. There are also the sophisticated architecture and cuisine leave-behinds from the Indochina era when Cambodia was under French protection as a buffer between Siam and a French Vietnam. And there are the lingering effects of Pol Pot’s Khmer Rouge regime when 25% of the Cambodian population was tortured and murdered between 1975-1979.

Cambodia’s Recent History

There was a civil war in Cambodia in the early 70s. After, Pol Pot and his Khmer Rouge regime arrested and eventually executed almost everyone suspected of connections with the former government or with foreign governments, as well as professionals and intellectuals. This state-sponsored genocide killed more than two million Cambodian people—men, women, and children. There are at least 20,000 mass grave sites in this small country (a country about the size of the state of Oregon). Today, bones have been gathered and are placed in “Killing Field” stupas around the country. Sometimes, bones or teeth are unearthed in monsoon rains, or when farmers are tilling fields and are brought to local stupas or monasteries out of respect. While the bones remain unidentified, they are cared for, remembered, and give the world a place to contemplate the horrors of genocide. Please, if you haven’t yet, read “First They Killed My Father” by Loung Ung and see the movie, “The Killing Fields”. As painful as these may be, it is important to remember these atrocities and the events that led to them. It is astounding what unbelievable horrors and cruelty people can inflict on other living beings. 

Skulls in a Killing Fields stupa in Siem Reap Cambodia
Unidentified bones from mass graves are brought to stupas out of respect for the dead. In the 1970s, Pol Pot and his Khmer Rouge regime tortured and killed 25% of Cambodia’s population in a state-sponsored genocide.

 

Lingering Impressions of Cambodia

I don’t want to end this post on this note. Cambodia is so much more than the haunted history of Pol Pot, mass graves, and land mines. I will remember it for being a land of French touches like baguettes and coffee, of beautiful green rice fields and white-water salt flats, of red dust and of dragonflies, of smells of night jasmine, lemongrass, and peppercorn; of humidity and a glorious diffused light from the woodsmoke and motorcycle haze, and being home to some of the friendliest people in the world. Remarkable. Cambodia reaffirmed how kind people can be. 

Four Cambodians on a motorcycle smiling and waving
Cambodians have ready smiles, waving from their motorcycle.
A dog sleeps in the red dirt of Siem Reap, Cambodia
A dog sleeps in the red dirt of Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Exotic yellow and green fruit stacked up. Siem Reap, Cambodia
Name that fruit. Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Penny Lane yellow, Siem Reap, Cambodia
Penny Lane yellow, Siem Reap, Cambodia.
Shutters on the French-influenced La Malraux restaurant in an alley of Siem Reap's Old Market, Cambodia.
Shutters on the French-influenced La Malraux restaurant in an alley of Siem Reap’s Old Market, Cambodia.